10 Valentines Day Sex Tips for Girls
Try a spot of kinky thinking this Valentines day to add spice to your lovemaking that will leave you both longing for more!
1. Rise to the occasion
Change the intensity of the basic military position with this simple addition. Place a pillow underneath your bum. This raises your pelvis up and puts you in the optimum position to ensure maximum contact between him and your clitoris, guaranteeing you more stimulation that the normal military position.
2. Porn star fantasy
OK so whilst watching porn isn’t everyone’s idea of a romantic or sexy evenings entertainment, the following tip can help to really add a new dimension to your bedroom antics.
Choose a movie you are both happy with, if he’s into anal but you prefer to see girl-on-girl action choose something that both of your will want to watch. You might already have a favourite porn movie or scene if so, put it on. Sit together and watch it but keep your hands off each other until the movie/scene is through.
Now the fun bit can begin. Take the aspects of the movie you enjoyed and act them out together. Role playing can feel a little awkward at first, but once you get into it and the passion takes over, you’ll forget all about any initial embarrassment!
3. Blindfold him
Men rely on their sense of sight, far more heavily than a woman so, to add an extra twist to your lovemaking blindfold him.
Strip naked and allow him to explore your body, the removal of his most relied on sense will heighten all his other senses making every touch all the more arousing for him.
4. Femme Fatale
You don’t have to be into full on BDSM to have some fun with power exchange games. Many men love the idea of a forward, highly sexual uber-woman that calls all the shots, so get into a super sexy, dominant mindset and spend the evening in control.
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Have him strip naked for you, then give him instructions and basically use him for your own sexual pleasure! You want oral? You got it! Demand that he lie back on the bed, tell him what you expect him to do to you, and then oh so sexily and seductively strip for him then kneel with a knee either side of his head and watch him eagerly please you.
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For many men, relinquishing the control they have in their everyday lives can act as a powerful aphrodisiac and a woman taking control is a very common male fantasy too, so make the most!
5. Go Deep
For a change to your usual lovemaking, try a different position. It’s so easy to stick to what you know and are comfortable with but doing something as simple as introducing a new position can really spice things up.
Start by lying side by side with your back towards him. Curl yourself up, pulling your knees up towards your chest whilst presenting your bum towards him. If your legs are pulled far enough up he’ll have a tantalising view of both your arse and your pussy.
When he enters your from behind in this position you can both benefit from really deep and satisfying penetration.
6. Lights…action! (Camera optional)
Lighting plays an important part in influencing our mood so ensure that your bedroom is lit for optimum mood enhancement. Many women can feel self conscious of their bodies and as a result can often prefer darker environments for lovemaking whilst men, the visual creatures that they are, often prefer brighter lighting that allows them to get a good look at your body.
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Soft, intimate lighting is an absolute must for bedroom lovemaking. The main overhead light is often way too bright and harsh, and yet total darkness can turn lovemaking into more of a fumble!
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If you don’t have softer bedside lamps, or if even these are too bright for your liking then candles are an absolute must. Keep half a dozen in strategic places around your room as well as a lighter in a handy place. Candle light really does change the ambience of a room and the subtle glow will help you feel less self conscious.
7. Keep it private
Many couples have distractions in their lives and there is no bigger distraction than that of children! Whilst the fear of getting caught can be a turn-on, being caught by the kids is a sure fire way to douse the flames of passion!
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Put a lock on the inside of your door. It doesn’t have to be full on, a simple privacy lock, or cabin latch is more than sufficient. Failing that a simple rubber door wedge pushed under the inside of your door is a great way of avoiding unwanted interruptions leaving you free to focus on feeling good instead.
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8. Let your imagination run wild
It’s a fact that the most important organ involved in lovemaking is your brain. Don’t be afraid to drift of into your own private fantasy every now and again, it can definitely add to the passion and stops things from becoming dull.
9. Tingle all over
Durex produce a great new range of lubricants and massage oils designed to add sensation to your most sensitive parts! Tingle for example produces a delightful tingling sensation when applied to the nipples, vagina or penis. Heat produces a hot tingling sensation and each is heightened further by blowing. Fantastic to improve sensation in your intimate areas!
10. Hand him control
Remote control sex toys. Never tried one? You are missing out big time! A remote control vibrator or bullet for example can make for some excellent foreplay. Place the bullet in position, then hand the remote control over to him.
Giving him full control over your pleasure can be a real turn on in itself, but having him turn in on full power and watching you squirm, then turning it off just before you cum can really stoke up the flames of passion. How much do you think you can take?
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